Nikki Glaser discusses CNC
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Nikki Glaser clarified that what many women call a 'rape fantasy' isn't about actual non-consent. She explains the dynamic is actually consensual non consent, or CNC, because no one wants to be violated by someone they aren't attracted to. It's role-playing where you can stop anytime with a safe word. Glaser noted she learned this on Reddit in the sex subreddit, where it's common for women to want things like being choked, bossed around, or having hair pulled done only by people they desire.
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Fantasies, I don't have that, but a lot of women do, so many women do, and it's actually called, it's not a rape fantasy because you're not fantasizing about actually being raped because that's not consensual. You want consensual, it's called CNC, consensual non-consent. That's what it's called, and I'm kind of into that. It's, um, that's an interesting phrase, consensual non-consent. I know, it's kind of murky, but saying rape fantasy is just not, uh, that's. want to be raped by someone you don't want to have sex with you want to be raped by someone you're really attracted to but you want to give in to it so you want it to happen so it's it's sort of kind of rape but not really rape because you actually want it to happen you want it to mimic you want it to be like role-playing rape so but you could stop it at any time because you have a safe word and you have all these things but so it's it isn't rape so women that go i have a rape fantasy and think that's like quirky about themselves you really don't you don't want that no one wants that And so yeah, that's what it's called is Consensual non-consent is what so many women are into and I read about it on reddit because I am in the subreddit sex And it's just a very common thing that that that women want in bed women like to be choked They like to be bossed around they like their hair pulled they like you know But they only like it to be done by people they want it to be done. Yes. Yes. That's very clear Yeah, yeah
