Sandy reacts to hair preference
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Sandy shut down a man's preference for long hair by calling out generalizations about Black women's hair textures. She pointed out her mother wears a necklace representing her, not short hair, and noted she owns a salon with experience handling varied styles. The woman argued that hair length or texture shouldn't determine dating eligibility and rejected the idea that his comment was just a preference. She viewed it as an attack on Black women, stating you can't talk to them about hair like that.
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And now she's someone that's your type? More so attracted to longer hair. Yeah. Fair enough. And Sandy, why did you end up popping your balloon? You're attractive, you know, you got it going on. But that comment about hair, I know your mama got short hair too. She's black. What? At the end of the day, black women, we, we, you don't know what to expect with our hair. We could wear it straight, we could wear it curly. And that was just like too much for me. So if you can't grow up from your roots, then you can't grow up with me. So that's how I feel. interesting i mean my mom is actually on my necklace she doesn't have short hair for one it doesn't matter it's about it's about who you are as a brother the person you don't make hair don't make your personality you dig me it's about who you are if you confident with short hair long hair it doesn't matter because a lot of girls that do have long hair hairs be thin i'm i i have a salon when i was 16 i brought my mother a salon with my business that i do so yeah i have dealt with so many different type of hairs. Shout out to my mom in the building. Philly, we here. But what you said, it's just not for me. You need to really check on your ends before you talk about long or short hair because a lot of girls with long hair be having no hair just because it's long, it's thin. So, yeah, I'm sorry. I can't. Okay, okay. Sounds triggered. It's not triggered. First of all I didn say the hairstyle she had was not good You said you and my girls with That not right You should never have said that at all As a black brother you should have kept that as what it was You should have just said, you know, you're not just my type. But hair is a different. You can't talk about hair. If you want hair, go get what you want. If you want Becky with the long hair, go get what you want. Don't talk to black women up here about hair. That's just it. And I'm not triggered. Like I said, at the end of the day, your hair is nappy. Your hair is short. You should be happy where you came from. Period. Can I talk or you're going to interrupt me again? I don't want to hear what you have to say. But you can say what you want to say. But don't talk about black people here. So, again, her hairstyle, there's nothing wrong with it. So it's my preference, right? So if I'm here to date, I'm here to find someone for me. So I'm not dating multiple people. You're not dating multiple people. So my comment to her has no sort of significance on you. But I'm a black woman. If I want to wear my hair like hers one day, what you going to say? oh, I don't like your hair, I'm going to go date Becky up the street, follow along. Thank you. I'll say this at the end of the day. Are you here to find a man or are you here to be? I'm not here to find you. I'm here to find someone that's going to accept me floss and all. And if you can't accept this young lady up here. Sounds like you're here to find a sister code. No. So we can move forward. Actually, women, we are here. We can move forward. And it's a lot of black women that's lined up in here. So you can't talk about hair. It's not about the length or the texture. Know what you say before you talk to black women. That's it. Thank you. Let's go on over here. Please.
